Holidays are No Longer Fun

Holidays are No Longer Fun

The Holiday season once was a time of joy and tradition, bonding with your families and connecting with loved ones you didn’t see throughout the year. As the years go by holidays have become more about depression, obligation, and debt.   The thought of sparkling...
Wondering in Wa

Wondering in Wa

Dear Mary,   I recently separated from my narcissist husband of nine years, due to his infidelities. Moving into my new townhouse I met the most incredible young man. He works for the moving company that moved me in. He is a little younger than me but we hit it off....
Behind Blue Eyes

Behind Blue Eyes

In a generation and time where there is so much controversy on whether to trust the police or not if they are our allies or enemies. Will they gun us down on sight? Are they more afraid of us or should we fear them? The media certainly doesn’t answer these questions...
Ask Mary: Lost in Las Vegas

Ask Mary: Lost in Las Vegas

Dear Mary,  I am feeling so lost and empty right now. I waited till my mid-30s to settle down and get married, and start a family because I lost my parents young and I did not want to bring a child into a world without parents. I met my beautiful angel about 7 years...
Ask Mary: Confused in Iowa

Ask Mary: Confused in Iowa

Mary,   I have been married for 4 years, and at first, he was my dream husband. He led me to believe that he was everything I needed and wanted in a man. He is a good provider, was loving and caring. He made me feel special in every way possible.   As time has gone...